So now that you have decided what is it that interests you in a person and what your interests and tastes are, try such fundamental word searches on a seek engine like Google.
The notion over here is not to plug yourself as a person who is in search of a life partner. No matter how well you put it, it looses that touch of subtlety once you are in a singles chat room. So dont do it that way. You call up how we spoke about working backwards; this is how it is done.